This installment was originally a ranting against the parts of Valentine’s Day that make me absolutely insane. It was not your usual stuff about the marketing groups at Hallmark and Russell Stover but other stuff. You will have to use our imagination because I am beginning to rethink it after yesterday.
I bought my blue-eyed angel a small gift and mailed it to her before I left on a business trip. She got it and sent me the nicest email. We talked for about an hour yesterday and she caught me up on how much she enjoyed opening the card and how happy it made her. This leads me to my new thinking.
Why is it so bad if I am forced to do something nice for the person that brightens my life on a daily basis? Maybe I should embrace the concept and create a Valentine’s Day about every three months. It would force me to do something nice for her at least four more times per year.
I am a very lucky man. I married my high school sweetheart and have been thankful for that moment nearly every day since. Her eyes are where blue skies meet the sunrise for me. I know I am home when I can look into those beautiful Disney-looking blue eyes. I love her more than life itself.
I am now a fan of Valentine’s Day and will attempt to embrace it next year instead of trying to defeat it somehow. Let’s face it, the day usually ends up pretty nice. What is there to complain about?
W
Friday, February 15, 2008
Friday, February 1, 2008
A Great Friday Night
It is Friday night and we are sitting in the house watching Mission Impossible. I think back to watching my parents sit at home on Friday night. What were they thinking?
My daughter (16) is on her way to Cafe Brazil for some kind of breakfast food. I know she is wondering what in the world we are doing sitting at home. We are resting!!
After a week of travel and extremely long hours, it is so nice to sit in my house and watch a movie with my wife and boy. Nothing like a watching a movie that you have to explain every other sequence to the boy. However, it is just nice to be at home.
The best part of all is looking over and seeing those beautiful blue eyes of my lovely wife.
Just love being home.
Wally
My daughter (16) is on her way to Cafe Brazil for some kind of breakfast food. I know she is wondering what in the world we are doing sitting at home. We are resting!!
After a week of travel and extremely long hours, it is so nice to sit in my house and watch a movie with my wife and boy. Nothing like a watching a movie that you have to explain every other sequence to the boy. However, it is just nice to be at home.
The best part of all is looking over and seeing those beautiful blue eyes of my lovely wife.
Just love being home.
Wally
Monday, January 14, 2008
Christian Capitalism
I attended a class on Sunday that was in a study of Ecclesiastes 10. Poise was a big player in today’s discussion. Do you have poise when all is seemingly breaking loose around you?
It was brought to my attention that the story of Joseph (Old Testament fame) took place over 20 years. ARE YOU KIDDING ME?? He served God to be kicked around for 20 years? Several discussion points in class were something like, “I have to keep my poise and remember God is in control even when things aren’t going well.” I agree but there is so much more.
My American brain cannot comprehend the depth of this requirement nor do we understand what Solomon was trying get across. Of course, he wasn’t living here.
As citizens of a capitalist economic system we have a unique perception of how God SHOULD operate and it begs for discussion. American Christians (myself included) think that we have a barter (read capitalist) system with God. I will be good, read my bible (sometimes), serve at church, give to the poor and God will take good care of me.
I may do something bad and that will cost me a raise at work, maybe I will get caught in traffic as my penance. I will persevere through these trials and keep my poise. Excellence on my part breeds more blessing. Happiness, money, nice cars, promotions at work are all part of how God will reward me for serving him. (does that sound familiar or do I need to seek counseling)
Let’s call it Christian Capitalism!!
I want to submit here that we don’t get it. God’s economy is not capitalistic. Come to think of it, God’s economy doesn’t even work in our world. He saved us from the pit, freely with no strings. End of economics lesson. It isn’t a trade off. Never has been. You and I can’t pay back what we owe.
Last point (caution: Africa example) So many people I met, while in South Africa, are joyful Christians in what we would call “bad situations.” They are not having poise, they are having joy and hope because they were saved! They have a hope that was given to them freely.
May I understand what I have been given and have joy every time I consider it… No poise required.
Wally
It was brought to my attention that the story of Joseph (Old Testament fame) took place over 20 years. ARE YOU KIDDING ME?? He served God to be kicked around for 20 years? Several discussion points in class were something like, “I have to keep my poise and remember God is in control even when things aren’t going well.” I agree but there is so much more.
My American brain cannot comprehend the depth of this requirement nor do we understand what Solomon was trying get across. Of course, he wasn’t living here.
As citizens of a capitalist economic system we have a unique perception of how God SHOULD operate and it begs for discussion. American Christians (myself included) think that we have a barter (read capitalist) system with God. I will be good, read my bible (sometimes), serve at church, give to the poor and God will take good care of me.
I may do something bad and that will cost me a raise at work, maybe I will get caught in traffic as my penance. I will persevere through these trials and keep my poise. Excellence on my part breeds more blessing. Happiness, money, nice cars, promotions at work are all part of how God will reward me for serving him. (does that sound familiar or do I need to seek counseling)
Let’s call it Christian Capitalism!!
I want to submit here that we don’t get it. God’s economy is not capitalistic. Come to think of it, God’s economy doesn’t even work in our world. He saved us from the pit, freely with no strings. End of economics lesson. It isn’t a trade off. Never has been. You and I can’t pay back what we owe.
Last point (caution: Africa example) So many people I met, while in South Africa, are joyful Christians in what we would call “bad situations.” They are not having poise, they are having joy and hope because they were saved! They have a hope that was given to them freely.
May I understand what I have been given and have joy every time I consider it… No poise required.
Wally
Sunday, January 6, 2008
Changes a Plenty
What is harder than anything else? Change!!
As we transition through another phase of life, we are reminded that God smiles on those that are willing to change to meet him at a new place. I am not talking about a new place in terms of a new address, just a change of the heart that may require a new address or a new thought process.
Those that read this will most likely be friends that have been a part of a powerful study where we learned about new challenges and new thought processes. "In a Pit With a Lion On A Snowy Day" is all about facing a new challenge with a new mindset. I am excited about my new challenge in life and embrace the uncertainty.
What changes are you facing? Feel free to be candid in leaving a comment that we can all discuss. The new year is a time of reflection and re-evaluation of what is important to you. I would love to hear the results of some of that thinking. You can leave the with or without names.
You may view this as an outlet for my need to be teaching. You are right. It is hard to not have that challenge each week and we miss the relationships that are so dear to us.
Wally
As we transition through another phase of life, we are reminded that God smiles on those that are willing to change to meet him at a new place. I am not talking about a new place in terms of a new address, just a change of the heart that may require a new address or a new thought process.
Those that read this will most likely be friends that have been a part of a powerful study where we learned about new challenges and new thought processes. "In a Pit With a Lion On A Snowy Day" is all about facing a new challenge with a new mindset. I am excited about my new challenge in life and embrace the uncertainty.
What changes are you facing? Feel free to be candid in leaving a comment that we can all discuss. The new year is a time of reflection and re-evaluation of what is important to you. I would love to hear the results of some of that thinking. You can leave the with or without names.
You may view this as an outlet for my need to be teaching. You are right. It is hard to not have that challenge each week and we miss the relationships that are so dear to us.
Wally
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